Against The Odds

Moon Chong and his son Matthew

Moon Chong and his son Matthew

My name is Moon Chong.  My wife, Jaclyn & I – we have 3 children, aged 18, 16 & 10. Our youngest one, Matthew was diagnosed with autism when he was 2 years old. We joined the Family Inclusion Network about a year ago.

Matthew was non-verbal till he was about 5 years old. Today, he can, at times be frustrated at not having the language skill & vocabulary to make us understand him. When he goes into a meltdown – intense tantrum – it can last an hour or more. Matthew also has sensory issues with loud noises (eg clapping), dislikes strangers & crowds in enclosed spaces and has a phobia for babies, for reasons we can’t explain.

When he was smaller, going to my in-laws for our weekly extended family dinners, riding in a crowded bus or MRT train, and attending church services were unmanageable. Getting into the lift with a baby inside would end in embarrassing hysterical cries. A visit to the dentist or to the barber was out of the question.

When he was 4 years old, by the grace of God who supplies me with love, patience & wisdom, I was able to quit my job and stay home full-time to help Matthew in his developmental needs – his  emotional, verbal, social & cognitive needs.

Against all odds, Matthew graduated from a special needs preschool to a mainstream primary school. He is now in Primary 3 and while he still has his bad days, he is not coping too badly.

I thank God that in the last 3 years, Matthew has made developmental breakthroughs, one after another. He has learnt to eat with chop-sticks, sit thru a dental cleaning, have his haircut at the barber, learn to say grace at meal-time, pray the Lord’s prayer, fold his own clothes, make his own drinks & ride a bicycle. You can imagine the intense joy we felt, each time he hit one of these milestones.

Matthew still struggles with making friends, displays visibly awkward reactions to his phobias in public and is linguistically not skillful enough to cope fully with schoolwork. But most importantly, we can see that he is happy, feels secured with people around, speaks with self-confidence and is surrounded by love.

Matthew has taught me to be a better parent. His autism has opened doors for me to reach out to other parents. For the past 5 years, I served in his primary school by organizing parenting workshops for other parents & activities for father & child bonding. Together with a few other dads in FIN, we have also initiated a Dads’ network to support one another in our fathering journey.

My continuing prayer for Matthew is that he can grow up to be a responsible man of God – fully functional in society, able to hold down a job, manage his relationships with others & in his own special way, be a blessing to others.

 Family Inclusion Network (FIN) is primarily a network founded by parents and volunteers with a HEART for families of persons with special needs and disabilities.

WHAT'S ON IN COOS

Events on April 20, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme this weekend as children are encouraged to join their parents for Resurrection Weekend Healing Services.
Location: NA
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8:00 am: Men@COOS Monthly Talk (April)

Nikhil Ratnam was led by God in 2015 to leave his 20-year banking career to start Quidditas Technologies Pte Ltd to tackle rural poverty in South and South-East Asia with usage of technology.
Location: Room 308
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2:30 pm: Healing Service : SP Daniel Wee Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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4:15 pm: 'Lost In Time' Children's Birthday Party

Location: Room 308
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4:30 pm: Youth Service

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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Events on April 21, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme this weekend as children are encouraged to join their parents for Resurrection Weekend Healing Services.
Location: NA
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8:30 am: Healing Service : SP Daniel Wee Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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10:45 am: Healing Service : SP Daniel Wee Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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Events on April 25, 2019

7:30 pm: Why We Need To Talk About Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)'

Details Description: - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is one of the most common mental health conditions in Singapore today. It affects people of all ages and walks of life, and occurs when a person gets caught in a cycle of obsessions and compulsions. Ms Pearlene Lim, a clinicial psychologist, will share about OCD and how to identify the signs and symptoms.
Location: COOS Chapel
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Events on April 26, 2019

7:30 pm: Night of the Nations

Details Description: - Come and join us as we pray for Singapore and the nations. This month's speaker is Wallis Sultan, author of 'Evangelism Made Simple'.

For more info, email missions@coos.org.sg.
Location: Main Auditorium
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Events on April 27, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz Programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme as all teachers and staff are away for Infinity Camp Training.
Location: NA
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2:30 pm: English Service : Ps Joseph You Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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4:30 pm: Youth Service

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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Events on April 28, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz Programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme as all teachers and staff are away for Infinity Camp Training.
Location: NA
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8:30 am: English Service : Ps Joseph You Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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9:00 am: GF evangelistic lunch

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10:45 am: Baptism Service : Ps Joseph You speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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SERVICE DETAILS

MAIN SERVICES (ENGLISH)
Saturday | 2.30pm
Sunday | 8.30am and 10.45am
YOUTH SERVICE (ENGLISH)
Saturday | 4.30pm
*Except every 1st weekend of the month, where youth joins main services.
SERVICES & OFFICE LOCATION
130 Margaret Drive Singapore 149300
It is a 10-minute walk from the Queenstown MRT Station.The bus-stops nearest to the church are served by
SBS Bus 51, 111, 145, 186, 195 and 32 and TIBS Bus 970.

The office is open from Tuesdays to Saturdays, 9am to 5.30pm.

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