Crafting a Beautiful Relationship with Mum

Even with our very different personalities, there’s still a large part of me that takes after my Mum

Dear Mum,

Thank you for being our mother—for your years of devotion and your many sleepless nights worrying over our future and praying for our hearts.

You and I cannot be more different in our personalities; you, the advocate of structure and discipline, and me, the laid-back daydreamer. You used to say that I couldn’t kill an ant even if I tried. My relaxed attitude towards everything must have been a source of great stress for you when I was growing up.

I remember when I was about 5, you signed me up for one of those colouring competitions where we had to present our best work on the spot. The room in which the competition was held in had a big viewing window for parents and I must have been daydreaming because you were so mad with me at the end of it. I never completed my colouring and obviously never came close to winning but it didn’t bother me one bit!

I may not have understood it then, but now that I am a parent, I’ve learnt to appreciate the value of structure and discipline. As a result of the foundation that you’ve given me, I know that providing my children with a structured environment gives them a sense of stability. At the same time, I also believe in giving them the freedom to discover themselves within that structure. In this way, my children get a little bit of me as well as a little bit of you!

Mum, you have been gifted with magic fingers and creativity. You must have gotten it from Grandma because she, too, was a whiz with her hands. From cooking to crafting anything out of nothing—you could give Martha Stewart a run for her money. My primary school art and craft abilities fell way short of your standards of perfection. As such, you could not stomach sitting idly by while I, in my signature laid-back, non-urgent demeanor, attempted art and craft assignments. You ended up finishing almost all of my art homework (save those that we had to finish in school) and my flawless pieces were often even selected for display by my teachers!

Even though it frustrated me growing up, I have come to admire your strong belief in taking pride in all that we do and because of you, I am an advocate of teaching my children to live life with a spirit of excellence. I hope that they glean from you the value of accomplishing things to the best of their abilities and that they, like you, take pride in the work of their hands.

I am so sorry that it’s taken me this long to say thank you for being my mother. Thank you Mum, for loving us to the best of your abilities, for giving up your career to care for us and for only wanting the best in life for us. Time has taught me to look out for the gems in others, and in you I see compassion, hospitality, selflessness and a loving heart.

Happy Mother’s Day!

Used with permission from Focus on the Family Singapore. This article was first published here.

Stay-At-Home-Mom, Sue-Ann is  hiding a ‘dirty’ little secret from her 3 children. Her idea of the perfect meal: chocolates for breakfast, cotton candy for lunch and television for dinner!

WHAT'S ON IN COOS

Events on April 20, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme this weekend as children are encouraged to join their parents for Resurrection Weekend Healing Services.
Location: NA
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8:00 am: Men@COOS Monthly Talk (April)

Nikhil Ratnam was led by God in 2015 to leave his 20-year banking career to start Quidditas Technologies Pte Ltd to tackle rural poverty in South and South-East Asia with usage of technology.
Location: Room 308
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2:30 pm: Healing Service : SP Daniel Wee Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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4:15 pm: 'Lost In Time' Children's Birthday Party

Location: Room 308
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4:30 pm: Youth Service

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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Events on April 21, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme this weekend as children are encouraged to join their parents for Resurrection Weekend Healing Services.
Location: NA
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8:30 am: Healing Service : SP Daniel Wee Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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10:45 am: Healing Service : SP Daniel Wee Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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Events on April 25, 2019

7:30 pm: Why We Need To Talk About Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)'

Details Description: - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is one of the most common mental health conditions in Singapore today. It affects people of all ages and walks of life, and occurs when a person gets caught in a cycle of obsessions and compulsions. Ms Pearlene Lim, a clinicial psychologist, will share about OCD and how to identify the signs and symptoms.
Location: COOS Chapel
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Events on April 26, 2019

7:30 pm: Night of the Nations

Details Description: - Come and join us as we pray for Singapore and the nations. This month's speaker is Wallis Sultan, author of 'Evangelism Made Simple'.

For more info, email missions@coos.org.sg.
Location: Main Auditorium
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Events on April 27, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz Programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme as all teachers and staff are away for Infinity Camp Training.
Location: NA
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2:30 pm: English Service : Ps Joseph You Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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4:30 pm: Youth Service

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Events on April 28, 2019

12:00 am: No COOSkidz Programme this weekend

There will be no COOSkidz Programme as all teachers and staff are away for Infinity Camp Training.
Location: NA
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8:30 am: English Service : Ps Joseph You Speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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9:00 am: GF evangelistic lunch

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10:45 am: Baptism Service : Ps Joseph You speaking

Location: 130 Margaret Dr, Singapore 149300
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MAIN SERVICES (ENGLISH)
Saturday | 2.30pm
Sunday | 8.30am and 10.45am
YOUTH SERVICE (ENGLISH)
Saturday | 4.30pm
*Except every 1st weekend of the month, where youth joins main services.
SERVICES & OFFICE LOCATION
130 Margaret Drive Singapore 149300
It is a 10-minute walk from the Queenstown MRT Station.The bus-stops nearest to the church are served by
SBS Bus 51, 111, 145, 186, 195 and 32 and TIBS Bus 970.

The office is open from Tuesdays to Saturdays, 9am to 5.30pm.

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